Common Mistakes When Teaching Move towards you (and How to Fix Them)

1. Moving Forward Too Soon: Many owners instinctively move toward their dog when giving the "Move towards you" command. This seems logical, as it feels like an invitation or encouragement. However, dogs interpret forward movement as assertive or even threatening behavior. When you approach them directly, they may feel cornered or pressured, leading to hesitation or retreat instead of compliance.

   • Why it backfires: This can cause anxiety in your dog, as they may perceive your approach as a challenge rather than an invitation. The result is often confusion or avoidance, which makes the training process frustrating for both you and your pup.
   • The principle for what works instead: Instead of moving forward, give your dog space and time to respond to the command. Allow them to come to you on their own terms, which fosters a sense of safety and control.

2. Inconsistent Timing of Praise: New dog owners sometimes wait too long to reward their pup for moving towards them. They may assume that praise should only come once the behavior is fully completed, thinking this will reinforce the action. However, dogs thrive on immediate feedback. Delayed praise can lead to confusion about what behavior is being rewarded.

   • Why it backfires: If your praise arrives after the moment your dog has made a decision to move towards you, they may not connect it to the action you wanted to encourage. This can create uncertainty and frustration, as they won’t understand what they did right.
   • The principle for what works instead: Praise should be immediate and enthusiastic, letting your dog know they are on the right track. Catch them in the act of considering the behavior, which builds a clear connection between your praise and their actions.

3. Using Commands Sparingly: Many owners fail to use the "Move towards you" command often enough throughout the day. They may call their dog only during training sessions or specific situations, thinking that their dog will learn it quickly. However, if the command is used infrequently, your dog has limited opportunities to associate the command with the desired behavior.

   • Why it backfires: When commands are rare, dogs may not recognize the cue when it is given. They might not even realize they are supposed to respond. This leads to missed opportunities for learning and reinforcing the behavior.
   • The principle for what works instead: Integrate the command into your daily routine. Frequent practice in varied situations helps your dog generalize the behavior, making it more likely they will respond correctly when called.

4. Failing to Match Body Language: Owners often fail to align their body language with their verbal commands. They might call their dog with a flat tone while standing still or sitting down, which can send mixed signals. Dogs are highly attuned to body language and can misinterpret your intentions if your posture and tone do not match your words.

   • Why it backfires: Inconsistent cues can confuse your dog, leading to uncertainty about whether they should move towards you or stay where they are. If your body language is passive or contradictory, your dog may feel unsure about what to do next.
   • The principle for what works instead: Ensure your body language, tone, and attitude are all in harmony with your verbal commands. Your physical posture should convey confidence and assurance, encouraging your dog to come to you willingly.

5. Scolding After a Delay: Some owners may call their dog to come and, upon arrival, scold them for not coming quickly enough. This approach may seem justified, as owners want to correct unwanted behaviors. However, scolding after a delayed response only serves to associate the command with negative experiences.

   • Why it backfires: If your dog learns that coming to you results in being scolded, they may become hesitant to respond in the future. This creates a negative association with the command, which can lead to avoidance behaviors.
   • The principle for what works instead: Focus on positive reinforcement. Encourage your dog’s willingness to come to you by rewarding them for their effort, regardless of the speed of their response. This builds trust and strengthens their desire to engage with you.

6. Ignoring Individual Differences: Owners sometimes overlook their dog’s unique personality and learning style. What works for one dog may not resonate with another. Some dogs may be naturally more independent, while others may require more encouragement and support. Assuming a one-size-fits-all approach can hinder your training efforts.

   • Why it backfires: Failing to consider your dog’s individuality can lead to frustration on both sides. If you do not adapt your training approach to their needs, you risk creating a disconnect that can slow their learning process.
   • The principle for what works instead: Pay attention to your dog’s responses and adapt your training accordingly. Understanding their personality can guide your approach and help you find the most effective way to encourage them to move towards you.

Understanding these common mistakes is the first step toward successful training. The principles behind each error highlight the importance of timing, body language, and individualized attention in your training efforts. Executing these insights with the right setup and adjustments for your specific dog is what Steve coaches inside ModDog. Train with Steve — your personalized coach.